Learn the warning signs of an abusive relationship and where to get help in Nigeria. Safe Haven Foundation offers support.
Abuse Does Not Always Start with Violence
Many abusive relationships begin subtly. Recognizing early signs can save lives.
Common Warning Signs
1. Control
- Monitoring your movements
- Restricting your finances
- Isolating you from family
2. Emotional Abuse
- Constant criticism
- Manipulation
- Gaslighting
3. Threats and Intimidation
- Threats of harm
- Destruction of property
- Verbal aggression
4. Physical or Sexual Violence
- Hitting, pushing, or restraining
- Forced sexual activity
Why Survivors Stay
- Fear
- Financial dependence
- Social stigma
- Hope for change
Understanding these factors is critical for designing effective support systems.
Where to Get Help
Safe Haven Foundation provides:
- Confidential counseling
- Emergency shelter
- Legal support
- Reintegration services
You Are Not Overreacting
If something feels wrong, it likely is. Abuse is about power and control, not just physical harm.
Take the First Step
Reaching out is the most difficult step. But it is also the most important.


