Learn safe and practical steps to leave an abusive relationship in Nigeria. Includes safety planning and support options.
Leaving Is a Process, Not a Single Decision
Leaving an abusive relationship is often the most dangerous period. Planning is essential.
Step-by-Step Safety Plan
1. Prepare Quietly
- Save emergency funds if possible
- Keep copies of important documents
- Identify a safe place to go
2. Build a Support Network
- Trusted friend or family member
- Support organizations like Safe Haven Foundation
3. Plan Your Exit
- Choose a safe time
- Avoid confrontation
- Leave quickly and safely
4. Seek Immediate Support
Contact SHF for:
- Shelter (Admission is based on referral by government institutions or partner NGO)
- Legal advice
- Counseling
Common Mistakes to Avoid
- Announcing plans to leave
- Confronting the abuser
- Leaving without support
Important Insight
Research consistently shows that structured safety planning significantly reduces risk during exit.
Final Thought
Leaving safely is possible. But it requires strategy, support, and timing.
